I’m mistress Bella , I’m looking for a loyal and serious submissive patter, my old submissive moved out of the country for business trip. What a good little slut you are for me. Are you going to be good for me? So wet/needy/sweet for me. I’m looking forward  to hear from you.I have been mistress for more than 14 years now and I am an active  member of a group of dominant women in the city and all over the world.

I seek a lil lost kinky sub who will love honor worship serve and obey me that's in need of training discipline punishment pleasure love and guidance control protection I  love  giving oral and anal pleasures mixed with passionate kisses bondage and spanking.

I will not accept anything less than your absolute submission and trust, which I take quite seriously. I cannot wait to take total control of your life. I will train and take you to be the perfect sissy slut slave for me. Below are some scenarios activities and adventures my past sub and I have been on, either at public play partiers or in the comfort of my own home. But mostly in my comfort of my own. 

Anal Play Armpit/Sweat Fetish Bastinado Boot Fetish Blackmail Breath Play/Asphyxiation Ballbusting Bondage Caging/Confinement Chastity Cock Milking Cross Dressing Canning Cock & Ball Torture Couples Castration Fantasy Choking Corporal Punishment Degradation Double/Multi Domme Domestic Servitude Dinner Dates E-Stim/Electric Play Edging Financial Domination Forced Feminization Foot Fetish/Worship Face Slapping Flogging/Whipping Gags Gas Masks Hand/Nails Fetish Humiliation Human furniture High Heels Keyholding Lingerie/Latex/Leather Leg Worship Mummification Mind Fuck/Play Needle Play/Piercings Nipple Torture Orgasm Control/Denial Physical Humiliation Pony Play Pet/Puppy Play Post Orgasm Torture Rubber Fetish

Role Play Ruined Orgasms Rope Shoe Fetish/Worship Slave Training Spanking/Paddling Strap-on Scratching Shopping Trips Slut Training Spitting Stockings/Suspenders Sadistic Domination Sensual Domination Silk/Satin Small Penis Humiliation Sissification Suspensin

Toilet humiliation (drinking of Pee and poop)

Tickling Tie and Tease Trampling Verbal Humiliation Wax Play Whipping

 

My approach to bdsm 

 

A number of years ago, in connection with my work with sexual addiction, a number of lifestyle submissives started coming to me for treatment. Some of these people were extremely hesitant to discuss their reasons for seeking therapy; they were so ashamed of their fantasies and behaviors that it took years of working with them until I knew their real names. Patients who able to be forthcoming about their masochistic behaviors and fantasies were as confused as I was. One of my patients, giving me a written masochistic fantasy after months of resistance, said, “Here it is. This is what I came to therapy for. It’s terrible. It’s sick. It’s wonderful. I hate it; it’s my favorite fantasy. I can’t stand it, I love it. It’s disgusting. I don’t want to stop it.”

Learning about the world of S&M has been an invaluable experience to me. I had to admit to myself that, viewed from the perspective of what I knew about the nature of the individual self, masochism puzzled me by flying in the face of everything that was rational about the nature of the human personality. People want to be happy and to avoid pain and suffering. They seek to maintain and increase their control over themselves and their surroundings. And they desire to maintain and increase their prestige, respect, and esteem. Viewed from the perspective of these three principles about the self, masochism is a startling paradox. The self is developed to avoid pain, but masochists seek pain. The self strives for control, but masochists seek to relinquish control. The self aims to maximize its esteem, but masochists deliberately seek out humiliation.